
Friends have been recommending it for months, it won a Pulitzer Prize and the National Book Critics Circle Award, and it’s being adapted into a series for HBO. Enough said, right? This weekend, I finally took the hint and borrowed a friend’s copy of Jennifer Egan’s A Visit From the Goon Squad , an interlocking collection of short stories that has me totally absorbed. It’s one of those collections that only needs a single phrase to capture, say, how young women ignore old women. It’s one of those collections that only needs two pages to make you understand a character’s heart.
It’s also one of those collections that makes people stop and talk to you on the street. On Sunday, I was hustling off the R train to see a play, with the book tucked under my arm, when a stranger walked passed me and said, “That’s a really great book.”
I didn’t catch this at first, since I was surrounded by the Ignoring You Bubble. You have to construct that Bubble in New York City, lest you wind up seeing free stand-up comedy on a double-decker tour bus driven by a homeless woman who just lost her belongings in a fire.
But even through the Bubble, I noticed that this woman was staring right at my copy of A Visit from the Goon Squad. That meant she wasn’t trying to give me a pamphlet about Jesus, so I stopped to actually look at her. She was wearing a cute blue trench coat and had brown curly hair that made me kind of jealous. She seemed too put together to be crazy, so I mustered all the power of my wit and replied, “What?”
“That book. It’s really good.”
“Oh, I know! I just started it yesterday, and I can’t put it down!”
We about the book as we climbed the stairs out of the subway. “Has she gotten to Africa, yet?” she asked. “Oooh, no!” I said, and I was intrigued to learn that the stories, which so far had been rooted in America, would soon zip off to Africa.
After a few more steps, my little friendship with Trenchcoat was over.
But what a wonderful friendship it was, you know? For a few seconds, a stranger and I found a real connection. We both knew it would be fleeting, but we dove in anyway, sharing our enthusiasm. I love that impulse… that willingness to have a casual conversation, just because it adds little kindness to the day.
That conversation wouldn’t have happened if I didn’t live in a pedestrian-friendly city, but it also wouldn’t have happened if I’d been reading A Visit From the Goon Squad on a Kindle or a Nook or an iPad. If I’d been carting a digital reader, then Trenchcoat wouldn’t have known what I was soaking up that afternoon. Our brief, yet vibrant friendship wouldn’t have been possible.
This is an unexplored consequence of the current digital revolution. By porting all of our media onto digital devices, we lose a signifier that might connect us to another person. This is only true regarding books, I guess, since you could never tell what was in someone’s Walkman, but still… it’s a loss. I’ve had lots of conversations with strangers about the books we’re carrying around.
I’ll probably get a digital reader, but for now, I’m glad I’m still walking around with books in my hands. I’m always up for making a new friend, however briefly.