This morning, I read Paul Simon’s recent interview in New York magazine, where he talks about staying creative in his seventies, no longer fearing death, and several other things that remind one just how cool he is. Writer Alan Light adds that Simon’s mortality may be balanced by the apparent immortality of the Graceland album and the song “Bridge Over Troubled Water.”
That made me imagine the year 2230, when choral societies will perform “You Can Call Me Al” and the unfrozen head of Alex Ross will discuss the classical characteristics of the “Sail on, Silver Girl” verse.
And then I mused—while taking a shower—that “Bridge Over Troubled Water” might endure not only because it’s beautiful, but also because it’s simultaneously intimate and vague. The lyrics evoke a feeling of caring for someone, of loving them so much that you would do anything for them, but they never reduce that affection to a specific relationship. Is the song written from one lover to another? A parent to a child? A friend to a friend? It could be about any of those things, and that makes it suit any number of ceremonies and private fantasies in your kitchen while you imagine singing it to someone who lives 1,000 miles away and is having a very hard week. (Ahem. So I’d imagine.)
Then as I got out of the shower—face freshly scrubbed with Checks and Balances face wash—I realized that I’ve always heard “Bridge Over Troubled Water” as a message from one friend to another. Maybe that’s because I heard that Simon wrote it for Art Garfunkel, but whatever the case, I think of it as a loving song but not a romantic one.
And finally I thought about how much I love songs like that. Sometimes, friends can forget to tell each other how much they matter, and songs like this remind us to do it.
With that, I present my top five Songs From Your Best Friend. What do you think of my choices? What would you add to the list?















